I blocked an old friend today
because we are old but not friends
Our relationship has become lopsided
often quite ugly and abusive.
I find it limiting and tiresome.
12 houes later I unblocked her because it was too brutal
What I remember first, as a baby, are the red tulips, so beautiful that I wanted to be like them.
Then I remember a tame snake that used to eat strawberries in the garden with me.
I remember my grandmother and father teaching me and my sisters to respect the insects, the plants, the animals and the trees, the cold northern lakes, the sacred places, the swamps and the mountains, and the people who fought for them long ago and still do.
There are many moments over many years that became a long moment of feeling the world, like an hour during a child's summer day.
I liked school, especially music, history, reading, physical sciences, art. I was very happy when my parents enrolled me in a museum-school. Young professors from many universities went there to teach classes. They taught us a lot about everything from medieval manuscripts to John Cage! I loved my Saturdays at the museum! We didn't have much money, my family, but we had nature and the arts. We had beauty!
I worked, studied and saved for art school. When I was accepted, I was very happy! During art school, I received a small grant that helped me spend a summer traveling mostly around Ireland, both in the West (Gaelic areas) and in the North. That was the beginning of my passion for travel.
I met my husband, a writer and teacher, after art school when I moved to San Francisco. We lived in and traveled to many places. We never had children. We stayed together until he died, peacefully, at home. He was the love of my life.
During Covid, I made the decision to leave Japan, where I was teaching, and return to the US.
30 members of my extended family became ill. My favorite brother-in-law died. My sister's pain is still great.
So much death made me realize that I needed to continue living. I had never been to Portugal before, but I sold everything and came here.
It hasn't been easy, but I'm glad to be here.
A small roof garden is enough
watching for one person.
Plants warn wilt or rot
not enough, too much,
slip away even in a night,
grow bounds.
Leaves are eaten
in hours.
Spiders,
bees,
these up here
feed with urgency.
Pots and troughs
slough off or sprout seeds.
This year they've gifted a cala, tomato, celosia,
but stunned snapdragons
into dormancy.
My garden's timeline is not mine.
Agapanthus is slow, at least more two years to go.
Trees and grasses assume independence,
fade and bloom when they want,
though I feed and water them.
I watch adventitious wanderers,
airborne, refugees
from damp,
and dry succulents swell, rejoice, spill over.
I am lessoned on too little and so much,
given daily reminders
of want and adjustment,
sufficiency,
dependence.
Eight stories up,
green stories told,
I listen, I learn,
and grow old.
Stared into Superior
near
where thomsonite
beach began
east of Morton Outcrops.
It's an image
that remains
over years
clear,
a solitary interior shore,
as I am
" To whom it may concern, Mr. Kirala's intention is to accelerate the process of making a beautiful tiger, and he is good at it."
"各位キララ氏虎美措置加速意図はに得意ひいすんしチンからもちのいい国とは近くイス口せせん"
deep time
rock
scissors
paper
It's a grey day, cool on the Río Ulla.
as a young girl boards a pilgrim boat,
a chaplet on her wrist.
Her father told me he's forgotten how to pray the rosary.
The rosary I know took a thousand years to grow, though
it seems a Marian practice made by men.
The opening and closing of decades,
described in 59 beads, a medal, a crucifix, all too heavy and grand,
unsuitable for water.
I recall the slow invention and dissolution of other sacred objects,
their companion prayers.
This girl in the boat today does not need 59 beads
but good weather and a sturdy hull.
Coastal storks begin building nests at sea.
Hoopoes along the river are larking with warblers and escaped parakeets.
Kites kill at midnight.
I've begun to worry about sparrows in nets
and ducks adrift in tidal plastics.
The gull on my roof has made a nest of rope and grasses.
An owl howls, not hoots, at the moon.
Chiffchaff brood hatches much too soon.
I haven't seen a jay in ages.
Waterproof.
Windchecked.
Risk averse.
Souvenirs.
I nail a clay swallow to a wall.
I place a paper dove above my head.
A swift in flight continues sky-bound for months,
feeding and sleeping mid-air,
adapting to currents,
her body wide open
to weather.
Once during a mighty storm
a swift landed upon my roof terrace.
Seconds later, she lifted again,
seized by the wind, drawn spiraling out, higher, farther.
I was not afraid for her.
I smiled as I watched her disappear,
an elemental winged thing,
storm wed,
resilient.